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**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-02-2009, 06:26 PM

There's got to be more though than a "back rub" to cease this.

I admitted that i can get "snappy", but I wouldn't lash out and hit my man and there, Wildchild is correct, if this thread was about a man doing this to a woman, there would be a completely different tone about the replies.

There could be reasons such as the pill she is on, you are on, is not strong enough, that neither of you are preparing for your periods before they come, with meditation, drinking more water, creating a "calm", in preperation.

If you think the above doesn't work, I'm here as living proof to tell you IT DOES...

I walk, i drink water, i stretch, i get my mind set and say "hold on woman", and the difference of the irritibility and the pain is 50% cut by doing so, has been for years.

Also, the other factor is "personality"... I think that if you only react to the person closest to you, that's your personality. Because if you don't give a shirt about people in general you will explode under this pressure regardless to whom your around.

Obviously both the threaders girlfriend and yourself, feel that you can lash out at hte person closest to you but no one else, kind of "hide" that from the world..

I would suggest both seek Doctor's opinions pertaining to how to "relax" more, ie) medication to take during this course.

I agree with Wildchild too.. ABUSE of any form is dangerous to the other person.. Be it physically, a dish flying accidently hitting the other person's head and causing severe injuries, even death, or mentally, finally breaking down yourself because you can't handle it anymore, or even walking out on your partner as a result.

If you love your partner, don't make excuses for why it happens, it's PMS, or PMMD or PFFFT, find a solution to ease it for you and for them and seek professional advice in this regard.

CW

07-02-2009, 06:26 PM	#13
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,927 Blog Entries: 7	There's got to be more though than a "back rub" to cease this. I admitted that i can get "snappy", but I wouldn't lash out and hit my man and there, Wildchild is correct, if this thread was about a man doing this to a woman, there would be a completely different tone about the replies. There could be reasons such as the pill she is on, you are on, is not strong enough, that neither of you are preparing for your periods before they come, with meditation, drinking more water, creating a "calm", in preperation. If you think the above doesn't work, I'm here as living proof to tell you IT DOES... I walk, i drink water, i stretch, i get my mind set and say "hold on woman", and the difference of the irritibility and the pain is 50% cut by doing so, has been for years. Also, the other factor is "personality"... I think that if you only react to the person closest to you, that's your personality. Because if you don't give a shirt about people in general you will explode under this pressure regardless to whom your around. Obviously both the threaders girlfriend and yourself, feel that you can lash out at hte person closest to you but no one else, kind of "hide" that from the world.. I would suggest both seek Doctor's opinions pertaining to how to "relax" more, ie) medication to take during this course. I agree with Wildchild too.. ABUSE of any form is dangerous to the other person.. Be it physically, a dish flying accidently hitting the other person's head and causing severe injuries, even death, or mentally, finally breaking down yourself because you can't handle it anymore, or even walking out on your partner as a result. If you love your partner, don't make excuses for why it happens, it's PMS, or PMMD or PFFFT, find a solution to ease it for you and for them and seek professional advice in this regard. CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod