Maybe take the pressure off. Give him a nice back rub and then go pleasure yourself. Help him relax and then let him want it? You might try getting a copy (Yes, here I go - a book- surprise) One Hour Orgasm. There is a really good description of how to pleasure a man or woman, setting the stage, creating a mood, building their anticipation - it's pretty good. Might just do the trick.
I'll bet the gentlemen here will have some ideas on this too
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