Thank you everyone for your replies! You all have been very helpfull and I see the truth in these comments. I have been doing things on my own lately and I have been feeling better about myself for doing it. I am having a hard time though not getting depressed when he is not around, or when I am off doing something with out him.
I was going to move back to my parents house (we weren't breaking up) and at the last minute he told me he didn't want me to go and that sometimes HE feels he is the one who NEEDS me. It made me feel really good to know that. And after he said it I really thought about it and it is true.
So I am just trying to be me for once, it is much harder than I though, I was just so used to living a certain way.
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