we're totally secure - when she's sober....

its not a big problem, she doesn't drink much, but when she goes out she doesn't have control and flirts which is a bad combination....

i worry not so much she'll cheat on me but, someone will take advantage.. there are some really horrid guys out there!

i think it should be ok, i have never tried to limit her, and never suggested she doesn't go out. i like her having fun and wouldn't want to stop that,
but, i have asked to possbily drink less..
she says she loves me, is it not therefore fair for her to prove it by not flirting and allowing guys to come onto her?? am i really unreasonable?

i can only stop being clingy when i know nothing will happen...
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