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**jonnie_rocks** · 07-03-2009, 09:18 AM

Greetings All

Chivalry is alive and well. Women, please stop settling for anything less than the best from your men. I am an emotional guy, who is fairly "old fashioned" when it comes to how I treat the woman I love. No, I don't believe in "women's work" or the "Cleavers". I do believe in class, dignity, honor and respect and I try to live by example everyday.

The woman I love with all of my heart and with whom I have been in a relationship for nearly two years (until recently) shared with me that she doesn't feel like we are emotionally connected during physical intimacy.

I would appreciate trying to understand what she means (from your perspective ladies).

I would also like everyone know that we, at times, have the following challenges:

1. My inability to orgasm in the missionary position due to lack of friction to
the underside of my penis. Happens frequently and leads to item #2.

2. The frequent disappintment she feels when "she" is unable to bring me to
orgasm. Makes her feel unattractive, undesirable, sexually inadequate,
etc. I find her extremely attractive, incredibly desirable and everything
I need, want or desire sexually. My inability to orgasm is not "her" but
me (I think) or perhaps "us".

3. She is often times "too wet", like many other women have mentioned on
this site.

4. Rarely do we orgasm together (she did with previous partners).

The only sure way for me to orgasm is when she's lying on her stomach and I
enter her from behind. The friction is very good and I can oragsm without a problem.

Bottom line.....

I'd like to understand what she means by "emotionally connected" and I'd like to be able to orgasm in missionary position together.

Thank you.

07-03-2009, 09:18 AM	#1
jonnie_rocks VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 33	Emotional Attachment during intimacy? Greetings All Chivalry is alive and well. Women, please stop settling for anything less than the best from your men. I am an emotional guy, who is fairly "old fashioned" when it comes to how I treat the woman I love. No, I don't believe in "women's work" or the "Cleavers". I do believe in class, dignity, honor and respect and I try to live by example everyday. The woman I love with all of my heart and with whom I have been in a relationship for nearly two years (until recently) shared with me that she doesn't feel like we are emotionally connected during physical intimacy. I would appreciate trying to understand what she means (from your perspective ladies). I would also like everyone know that we, at times, have the following challenges: 1. My inability to orgasm in the missionary position due to lack of friction to the underside of my penis. Happens frequently and leads to item #2. 2. The frequent disappintment she feels when "she" is unable to bring me to orgasm. Makes her feel unattractive, undesirable, sexually inadequate, etc. I find her extremely attractive, incredibly desirable and everything I need, want or desire sexually. My inability to orgasm is not "her" but me (I think) or perhaps "us". 3. She is often times "too wet", like many other women have mentioned on this site. 4. Rarely do we orgasm together (she did with previous partners). The only sure way for me to orgasm is when she's lying on her stomach and I enter her from behind. The friction is very good and I can oragsm without a problem. Bottom line..... I'd like to understand what she means by "emotionally connected" and I'd like to be able to orgasm in missionary position together. Thank you.