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**jonnie_rocks** · 07-03-2009, 05:42 PM

Thank you all for your advice!

Being "old fashioned" (whatever that means), I am forever telling her, regardless of position, how much I love her, how sexy she is, how amazing she makes me feel, how incredible our lovemaking is, etc.

As far as when I'm doing her from behind, I lay on top of her with support from my upper arms and elbows so our bodies are in nearly full contact.

As her lover, I am very in tune with her needs and bringing her as much physically intimate joy as possible. Unlike past lovers, I always put her first and enjoy giving her tons of foreplay, oral, etc. It's not about ME, it's about her! I get tremendous joy (mental orgasm) out of driving her crazy (so to speak) sexually and helping her reach multiple orgasms (6 or 7 is not uncommon) when we make love.

I am always trying to become a better lover and be able to provide for more of her needs, wants, desires.

I am not one of those "man on top get it over with quick types". I LOVE all that lovemaking is and how much time it takes. To me, lovemaking is an event, not an act (like sex) and I LOVE it.

I am just baffled by the "lack of emotional connection" that she feels we have.

Kegals are another thing that have been openly discussed and we are working to strengthen them everyday.

Please keep the advice coming, as I believe that many heads are better than one.

Have a safe and happy 4th!

GOD bless America!

07-03-2009, 05:42 PM	#6
jonnie_rocks VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 33	A reply Thank you all for your advice! Being "old fashioned" (whatever that means), I am forever telling her, regardless of position, how much I love her, how sexy she is, how amazing she makes me feel, how incredible our lovemaking is, etc. As far as when I'm doing her from behind, I lay on top of her with support from my upper arms and elbows so our bodies are in nearly full contact. As her lover, I am very in tune with her needs and bringing her as much physically intimate joy as possible. Unlike past lovers, I always put her first and enjoy giving her tons of foreplay, oral, etc. It's not about ME, it's about her! I get tremendous joy (mental orgasm) out of driving her crazy (so to speak) sexually and helping her reach multiple orgasms (6 or 7 is not uncommon) when we make love. I am always trying to become a better lover and be able to provide for more of her needs, wants, desires. I am not one of those "man on top get it over with quick types". I LOVE all that lovemaking is and how much time it takes. To me, lovemaking is an event, not an act (like sex) and I LOVE it. I am just baffled by the "lack of emotional connection" that she feels we have. Kegals are another thing that have been openly discussed and we are working to strengthen them everyday. Please keep the advice coming, as I believe that many heads are better than one. Have a safe and happy 4th! GOD bless America!