As for your questions:
We do spend quite a bit of time together and I know that she wants/needs more alone time... I actually talked to her about this today. Basically she only goes out and does things when I'm gone to work, so I told her that she doesn't need to wait for me to be gone to go do things but I guess she feels bad if shes not including me... I guess part of that is because I'm new to this area and don't really have any friends of my own out here (I need to fix this). Hopefully she listens to what I had to say and she starts doing things on her own without me, I think she needs that. Sorry I forgot to mention that we are now living together, have been for a month now and for the most part its been great! I'm thinking now that its probably a space issue like you have suggested, because I do all those other things that you stated (buy flowers, give her massages and rub her feet or play in her hair while we cuddle and watch a movie... I kiss her and tell her that I love her all the time... etc) I'm kind of a sappy fool like that :P I love doing things that make her feel good... She has mentioned that shes not use to being treated like that at all so maybe its a bit overwhelming? Maybe I should tone it down a bit? Hmmmm.
She has also mention again today that the pill messes up her head and her hormones, she said she is going to get off of it because she doesn't feel like herself... Does that make sense?
Well thanks for the info ladies
I appreciate it... I would like to think I am pretty confident for the most part but this internet stuff just kills me, its very hard to deal with. Its definitely going to be a learning curve for me. I really did trust her before but since this thing happened she lost some of that trust... I really want her to gain it back so we can be like before, not just the sex but on the whole. We really are great together and I really do feel like shes the "one"... even this early in the relationship... its hard to explain but for the first time things just feel "right" you know?
Is there anything I missed?
Thanks again