"It is your body, and he should be thankful you are allowing it to pleasure him so you should have the final say! I am sure he wouldn't let something continue that he wasn't comfortable with."
Sorry, I just saw this and thought I'd add:
It's his body he is allowing someone else to use too, you know. I'm all for guarding our bodies and thinking of them as a temple, but so often women seem to disregard men's bodies as being equally as precious, as we grow up in this anti-male society. But I'm not going to get into that debate right now.
The pleasure of sex should be mutual and comfortable. One person should not have dominance over another in terms of "You must do as I want because I'm female/male and my needs/concerns are therefore greater and more important than yours".
Don't let him pressure you or make you feel uncomfortable, but don't disregard his needs either.
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