I had been in the pill before, and it messes up my entire being. Moody, emotional, no sex drive - reason why I was abused! Try to be more supportive emotionally. Lots of touch during the day, not necessarily suggesting you want sex, but touch can do a lot for that emotional connection. Find out what her primary love languages are: (language of) quality time, (language of) touch, (language of words) praise, (language of) gifts, (language of) service...this varies per individual. My first love language is quality time, next is touch...my SO and I discussed about it and we keep our love tanks in check. You should.
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