This is really a mixed bag.
I know of men and their wives who have been really open for years and finally experimented with another male and it was fine.
I know of others, who thought they were open to it, but found out another male was just too much for either too handle. There's something about another person, particularly a male being added to the mix that just cannot be defined.
It's different and once it's done, you can't erase it.
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