Though everyone makes great points that I agree with, I honestly believe its just depends on the type of person you are. Like I said before, My personal issue didn't arise until my Mom passed away and I was put under alot of emotional stress. On top of that I have been on my own period for 2 straight months now. Up until all this, I had the normal PMS symptoms. It wasn't until the past few months that I started lashing out. Why don't I lash out in public, because my SO is the one I see and talk to every single day. There are more chances are him setting me off. If you dont see family or friends for days, its less of a stressful meeting and a less of a chance they'll do something to really get to you. Further more, being at home also gives you that comfort of being in your own skin. My man gets it. Yes, it's gotten to him. He's even snapped to the point of scaring that out of me (not like him at all) but since all this, we've talked more about it and it's gotten better. My advice is just talk to her. Tell her that you are concerned. I've gone to the doctor for my issues and they swear I'm just a normal healthy 25 yr old. I walk, I drink water, I do all the little things everyone has explained but it hasn't helped. Whats helped is talking to my man. BTW, him and I just moved aswell. Our house is a mess from moving and Relay For Life (I'm a team captain and committee chair) and it drives me crazy. Its helped by him taking a small amount of stress on. He'll let me come home from work and take a nap if I need to while he does the dishes or something. In return I'll do the same for him. You'd be surprised what stress and hormones can really do. But like I said my situation is different, Just talk to her.
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