Just because as soon as he told her and he didn't divorce her doesn't mean it can't or won't happen. Like I said, it hasn't even been 2 weeks and there is a lot of other going on at his house besides this that he prob. feels obligated to stay for a while for. Even though a divorce wasn't the thing that was done doesn't mean their marriage will get any better and he will stay. It certainly doesn't mean he won't come back to me or leave her for me sometime soon either. Okay, I know you prob. just think I am in denial and am stupid, but I am just trying not to go crazy.