It is very difficult to forget... It's worse when there is no closure...
You will more than likely continue checking the computer, mobile and even see if there is a second mobile phone, this is going to eat at you.
It's good that you sat and talked about it for a day and worked through the problem, communication is a great tool in a marriage.
Focusing on negative energy won't get you anywhere.
He has lost your trust, because he has stated he deleted a number but then continued communicating and worse, put you down, mentioned divorce and mentioned moving closer to her.
I can only say that if he does that further down the track, he was going to do it anyway, meaning, focus on the belief that he won't, doesn't want to and work on the laughter and smiles back into your marriage.
It's the only way you are going to win in this...
Know your worth and why he fell in love with you and married you to start with and work back into that sphere....
Maybe as well, you should consider Managing different stores, same hours but different stores, have some "time out" from each other, instead of being in each other's pockets and definately, have a life as well as with him, of your own, hobbies and friends.
CW
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