Kaylar~
I didn't mean to make you go away. I am just trying stay a bit more positive. I know you are prob. very intelligent and know lots about these types of situations and I didn't mean to offend you if I did. I need to think happy thoughts at least for the time being. I have 4 kids that need me sane and thinking that this is over and that he has done such a horrible thing and it is permanent isn't exceptable right now. I know that it might be, but maybe it isn't over, when I told my husband I wanted a divorce and stuff, it didn't happen overnight and I felt bad when he was upset and it took me a while to finally decide enough was enough and it was over no matter how sad he was. Things like that can take time and people do need space and get confused about things when tons of stuff is going on. Maybe I am wrong, maybe I am right. I know that I just have to wait and see.