When a heart gets broken, the person whom broke it is everything under the sun.
No one however, is "worthless".
People lose their way and can't find the road to recovery, or don't want to find it due to pain, or addiction.
How much help did this girl get to start with? MIL suggested you help but how far did they help before you arrived.
I'm not condoning what she did, but you state you knew of her addiction when you both met.
She is going to be your child's Mother for years to come, granted you may gain custody, but will this tip her over the edge?
As much as you don't want to have compassion, consider accepting you don't want a cheater as a wife, consider accepting that you will ask for custody, but also consider forgiving ( not forgetting) because, she probably didn't realise she did what she did until after and definately needs help. Consider doing something people wouldn't think off... Leaving but still helping her get over her addiction.
CW
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Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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