I do agree with that. The man I was with was married as was I and within 3 weeks after we said I LOVE YOU we both left. It didn't work out due to children and states away but if they dont leave.....it's bc they dont have to they have everything a cheater could want. His safe home and his exciting life with the younger amazing girl who gives him what he once had with his wife.

I think the fact that he couldn't even give you the respect to call you him self shows that he wont leave unless she makes him leave.

I'm sorry your heart hurts....Ironically I am still in love with my husband who left me after we reconciled and planned our second chlild...which came a month early and he feared at first that he wasn't his. So two months later he left me bc his trust for me was gone. 2 years later I still pay for the affair that I had....the grass isn't always greener on the other side.