Update
I know that tons of women must come on here for advice and never come back.
So, I thought I'd give everyone an update.
Yesterday, I called my pastor, and asked him if there were any other marriage counselors he would reccomend. I explained that I want a completely detached third party to counsel us, and that i still value him as a dear friend and religious guide.
He was happy to give me a few names and numbers.
We start counseling next week.
For all of those who posted on here, thank you for your input.
And to those, especially, that PMd me and offered advice, and even reccomended counseling centers, I thank you.
I really needed support and I found it here. I think I'm ready to start moving on, and trying to rebuild my relationship. I think I can forgive.
I'll try to post a couple of more updates to let you all know how we are doing.
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