05-05-2007, 11:54 PM
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Consequences
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Until such time as you are in charge of yourself, not 'reacting'
but acting, any interpersonal involvements should be avoided.
Revenge lovers are mistakes.
You may hurt someone you would probably love a year
from now, may wind up involved with someone you
despise.
Your judgement is a clouded as an enraged bull.
And trying to 'fix' your cheating husband by cheating
makes you a pawn in his game.
The Freedom you get from his Adultery is that you
disconnect yourself from him. No longer do you cook
what he likes, nor go where he wants.
You have met someone else, You.
When you are involved with a man you tend to
postpone yourself and prioritise him.
You learn to like what he likes, want what he
wants, as if your 'harddrive' has been overwritten
by him.
During the worst moments of his adultery when
your whole world ended, you have been able to
piece yourself back together.
Now that it is over and you are more in control
of yourself, don't sublimate in him. Not again.
Establish yourself.
Find out what You like.
What You want.
And give it to You.
Join clubs, visit museums, do whatever it is
you loved before you met him. Never again
will he be able to 'stake a claim' on you.
This is not a thoroughly bad thing.
You become more independent and
stronger.
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