Thanks to everyone who replied to my post. I have some new perspectives on how to look at this situation.
Update since I posted: I'm still with him and he has let me know that things will change in our relationship as far as getting married is concerned. I have agreed to give him space and let him do what he feels when the time is right for him. Obviously talking to him about marriage doesn't scare him, as he says he wants the same things as I do. He just wants to make sure everything is stable financially. I won't give up on him. I love him way too much.
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