if it works... don't fix it!
so what if you don't have a ring on your finger and a title to go with it? it's not like this is the 1950's. people live together as one and have kids together without being married. IMO marriage comes with obligation. Some people are "stuck" in their marriages because they think since they're married they have the obligation to "make it work" I just look at goldie hawn and kurt russell. they aren't LEGALLY married but they live together and act as if they do. ( they also have a kid) and it's working for them.
It seems like you and your bf are working out. why add on more stress?
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