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Originally Posted by caterpillar79
Your fiance is a lucky woman! Imagine how many women here envy her...  ... Out of curiosity, I had been to such places, and it disgusts me no matter what my BF says. I thought I'd go home insecure after that, but it turned out otherwise. I had an internal battle though. I dug deep in my treasure chest and realized that I will not live my life with a partner who frequents those places. |
Thank you for the ego boost!
Truth of the matter is, I'm also a pretty lucky guy to have her.
If I may I want to shed more light on the topic - it may make you and the O/P feel better.
From a young age, both men and women pick up gender roles from their parents and from society. Unfortunately, it seems that all the crude and perverted practices seem to end up in the "manly things to do" bucket. In my opinion, I don't think paying to look at sub par girls is very manly. Going out and meeting the prom queen and having her accompany you home is.
So be careful when judging his reasons for going...it may be out of plain old peer pressure, or maybe it makes him feel like a man because it's apparently a "manly" thing to do. I know the few times i've been to strip clubs I went without wanting to simply comforming to my buddies.
Hope this helps!