Drama28, it sounds like each day is getting better for you. I have read all the posts since I left last week....my heart still aches for you. After reading everything that has been said, I know you probably take every word to heart. Statistics aren't an exact science, ya know? Every single situation is different. I still feel this man isn't being a turd because he hasn't contacted you...and I am sure there are a million reasons why. I am sure you will get your day of words with him. I know I have had heartache over someone that I have loved and knew there wouldn't be another moment with us together. It is a devastating feeling. A physical ache. I am sure that is what you are going through right now. I have said it before, and so have others here, time heals all wounds. I am still praying for the best outcome for YOU and your daughter. With or without him. IF it is without him, you will be shown someone else that will fill that void and more than make up for the hurt you are going through. It's almost like labor pains....once you get through the excruciating pain, you start to forget how horrible it was and start to enjoy all the beauty the pain brought. I am going to keep watching to see each day of progress. Keep venting...I loved how one of your posts was speaking directly to this man that has hurt you. That is a great healing tool. Use US as HIM and say everything to us that you would to him. If that makes sense. It allows you to yell at him even though he can't hear it!