PFTTTT.... Isn't it horrid when they try to take full control... "I will not", "I will do this", "you will not do that", "I will not accept this"....
Then don't even tell him that your going to be late with payments, in-fact skip one if you really can't afford it and don't reply to his email...
It's unfortunate when this happens. My best friend of 20 years went through this with her ex-husband, he ended up re-marrying and I asked her to let the kids go to the wedding, as not to cause issues later in life... But, he was the same, you will not, I will not etc. She granted, would cook a meal for 1 child and another for the other two, and he would cook (1) for the three, if one didn't eat it, because they didn't like it, he would send them to their room ( with a belt), not good. She took them all and went to Scotland in the end, there now...
It got that bad.
Get on with your life maxy find your "knight".... be happy...... love your children and totally forget this man, he is "only" the father of your children now and you deserve love and affection from more than just your children.
As, I said before, they will see him for what he is as times go by without any words from you, from his actions of not talking to them enough....
Keep loving them and love yourself and find that knight whilst your at it.
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Women are Angels
And when someone breaks our wings....
We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick...
We are flexible like that ....
White Witch.
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