I am so glad you got rid of that first guy... 1. He is a complete moron... lol, good grief - he is headed for a life of dissapointments with that kind of mentality and I don't feel one bit of sympathy. Do NOT let him or your catty (and obviously jealous) friends dictate how you feel about you, or influence what you think your boyfriend thinks of you.
Your friends are JEALOUS... I don't know why as you didn't tell us more about you, but they are. Fact is, girls only say junk like that to girls they secretly envy. If they didn't envy you at all they'd feel no need to try to sink your feelings like that.
Dump them, every last one of them. I know its hard but they saying 'with friends like that who needs enemies' has never been so applicable than it is right here. Its time to open yourself up to making some more secure friends, ones that won't try to kick you in the guts in order to make themselves feel pretty... they are out there.
In the meantime, do NOT worry about your breasts. Focus on the things about your body/face/hair/clothes/attitude/etc that make YOU feel sexy. Think about all the sweet things your guy says to you about you , things about your insides as well as outsides. Love who you are enough to not let anyone be mean to you.
If a friend of yours sat down and told you everything you told us, what advice would you give her? Would you think she doesn't deserve that kind of treatment? Treat yourself as kindly and with the same respect you would give that friend and expect her to get.
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Defintion of Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
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