hi i can understand because I love my mom so very much. She doesn't have time to take care of her self because she is alway's so busy with everyone else. She takes care of grand children, her own children and her boyfriend. It is hard for her but whenever i can i go and give her a makeover and she looks soo much younger. Try these steps and i am sure it will knock a whole bunch of yers off.
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Excersise it not only makes you look younger but you will feel amazing! plus it helps to release stress and gives u strength to protet yourself. do cardio and lift weights and yummy you will feel.
2.
Healthy diet it is not to late to start a healthy diet it is important that you mostly fill up on fruits and vegetables do not take diet pills! Try this awsome website where u can get help on both working out and a good diet.
sparkpeople.com
3.
Apricot scrub is a must have in the bathroom for your facial wash.
4. Try some
facial mask in the morning after you wash with scrub and some warm water to open up your pores. your mask can be a cheap kind just as long as you feel it stretch and stiffen your face up.
5. try a
light astringent to help with the clean face.
6. DO your
Eyebrows this is so important it takes years of a persons face, pluck the crazies and give yourself a lovely shape. not too thin or too thick.
7.
pamper your self it doesn't have to cost you hundreds of dollars just pick a time every week where you atleast do everything for your self like all your beauty stuff, nails, bath with some candles & aroma therapy maybe some music, make your self a lovely meal as if you are being romantic to your self treat yourself like a queen that is what you are so treat yourself that way and show it off. Dye your hair yourself but get a new hair cut in the salon every month. reward yourself get you some lovely clothes and show it off! Have a friend do your makeup or go online to makeup tutorials even try the avon ladies they will give you a makeover. It is really important that you don't forget yourself please you must atleast have 1 day each week where you pamper yourself it is most important. (as to your facial hair pluck it or bleach it)
I hope to have helped good luck!