I think that condoms ruin the sensation for the woman too ... but I think since most women are baptized in the church of "no glove, no love," they don't know that. I probably dislike using condoms more than the boyfriend does.
Sex without barrier method BC is like a fireworks show. Sex with a condom is like lighting up a sparkler.
Of course, that's not to persuade you to give up on the condoms. He should be respecting your wish to use barrier method birth control. You may find that condoms just don't cut it for the both of you. I know that some women just can't handle hormone birth control like the pill, but you could try that (though it doesn't protect against STDs.) There are other barrier options, too, like female condoms or diaphragms. I haven't used either of those, so I can't extoll their virtues or vice versa.

thanks for everyone for your advise, but my bf penis is uncircumcised.. i know it's uncomfortable for him but I have to make him using condom from now on.

Trust me if a guy has a choice between sex with a condom and no sex he is going to suddenly start to love condoms. For those of you that are willing to let babylove (maybe) get an STD, AIDS or knocked up so it feels nicer for her boyfriend? GRRRRR... Are you parents!? Would you tell your daughter this? I'm thinking but not typing some really nasty thoughts.

Oral sex without a condom is no better then intercourse without a condom other then the rate of infection being a little different. One suggestion for doing that. There is a brand called "durex" that sells a condom called "For her Pleasure" that doesn't taste like some weird chemical cleaner.

Hah, if a girl ever gets out a condom for a blowjob she's out of the door. Seriously. I mean it's not like I go humping every sheep in the field outside. And if that's the case, does that mean a man cannot give oral to a woman at all? I mean that I know of (dunno anything about diaphragms etc) there is no barrier that would go between tongue and clit, so good luck getting an orgasm girls.

Fact is, you probably shouldn't be having sex with people you don't trust. If you do trust them, and you aren't too braindead to remember to take a pill every day, then barrier methods are basically a form of punishment.

And if you're unlucky enough to be that 0.05% or whatever of b/c pill failures then don't be dumb, and notice it quickly and get an abortion, before the foetus is even anything remotely considerable as alive.

I mean, life is all about taking risks. Have you ever not looked both ways before you crossed a road because you hear no cars when you're in a hurry? Have you ever exceeded a speed limit? Have you ever climber something just for fun? Everything has an inherent risk, usually you can eliminate the risk by making it boring. Is it really worth doing that with sex too?

I think your taking my reply as an insult about how many people you sleep with. Or how easy it is to get you in bed? I am NOT... I agree with you that a person should be very choosy about who he or she sleeps with. Even if the world was perfect and there was no such thing as an STD when you have sex you "might" get pregnant. And lets agree on one point. That is some serious stuff no matter how you deal with it and you do NOT want to be the parent of a kid with someone whose only good trait is the ability they have in bed.

Please - don't get mad - but DO read this.

"A new CDC study estimates that one in four (26 percent) young women between the ages of 14 and 19 in the United States – or 3.2 million teenage girls – is infected with at least one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases (human papillomavirus (HPV), chlamydia, herpes simplex virus, and trichomoniasis). The study, presented today at the 2008 National STD Prevention Conference, is the first to examine the combined national prevalence of common STDs among adolescent women in the United States, and provides the clearest picture to date of the overall STD burden in adolescent women."

So do the math. 1 in 4 women have an STD. How many young males have one? Lets assume its similar numbers. If your sexual partner has had unprotected sex with 4 people he has one. (If you go by the odds) If you have sex with a lad who has had unprotected sex with two people you have a coins flip chance that you will get some type of STD. This assumes your a virigin btw because everyone YOU have unprotected sex makes is possible that you will be the lucky one to give him the infection.

Safe sex is hot! There are Dental Dams that work just fine for a guy going down on a woman. Gloves etc are all nice and "smooth" and allow better penetration. *I think. This idea that sex must be like your living on some island? Its it worth getting Herpes? I don't think so.

From what we learned at our childs school the latest generation is going overboard with Oral sex because they don't have to worry about pregnancy and its making the STD rates skyrocket.

And if your significant other really would leave because you wanted to be safe from STDs? Is this the kind of self obsessed person you would really want to grow old with? I would say goodbye and DO NOT call so fast his tiny head would spin.

No, I'm not offended, I just find it strange how you seem to see everyone as a carrier of STDs just waiting to infect you.

I don't care about statistics. If you trust your partner, which you should, and if you get checked for STDs after unprotected sex with a partner, which you should, then you shouldn't be in a situation where you have to ruin the whole experience with oral-condoms etc. But sure, if you want to have a gangbang with the football team one day, then condoms are a good idea.

If you're that paranoid, then it probably wouldn't be a great relationship anyway.

And safe sex (read, barrier method) is in no way hot. And seriously, if you get some girl back to your place, and ask her if she has her Dental Dam so you can give her oral, what exactly is her face going to look like?

Hahahahahhaha. Sorry but that's funny