Thread: How can I be sure I'm infertile?

Hi there, first post so please treat me gently.
I’m a married 42 y/o based in the UK and I think I’m going through the menopause.
I haven’t had a period since February 2009 and over the past year I’ve had a number of the usual symptoms.
I feel guilty asking this because I know there are thousands of women who want to conceive but can’t, but is there a way I can be sure I’m now infertile? E.g.: is there a test a doctor can carry out, or is there even a home test kit?
I’ve never been able to use clinical contraception of any kind because they gave me migraines.
I just want to know if me and my husband can now ‘play safely’ without worrying about babies.
Some say two years without a period is long enough to be sure, but I want to be absolutely certain.
It would be nice to be able to tell my man that he can finally throw away the jonnies.

Thanks
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