pill killed my sex life! HELP

angel04 · 06-05-2007, 07:00 PM

Over the past 3 years I was on the pill for a year and a half, off of it for a little over a year, and have now been back on it for about 3 months. Ever Since I got back on, It's been EXTERMELY difficult for me to have an orgasm, and I RARELY get wet, and we now have to use lubricant. I just got married a month ago, and our sex has cut down dramatically since we got married, and I think this is to blame. He feels like he can't satisfy me, and I lose interest because I get frusterated that I cant orgasm. I've switched 3 diffierent kinds of pills in 3 months because of this and none seem to help. Anyone know what kind would help? Does this happen with the nuva ring? I'm interested in it, and was wondering if that has helped anyone, or if theres anything out there that can help me? I don't want to get off the pill altogether because we are not ready for kids!!!

em07 · 06-20-2007, 06:41 PM

hi you need to come of the pill quick time DO NOT listen to what doctors tell you about it. i was on the pill and it completly ruind every thing for me me and my partner nearly split up. also ive had freinds who have been on it and experienced proplems to. the best thing to tell you is use condoms i no many people dont like them. try the non homonal coil. hope that helps

**KD22** · 06-29-2007, 02:54 PM

My doc says that when you're on the pill it tells ur body that ur preggo all month long so you lose that vibrant happy and 'sexy' feeling when you're ovulating. Your body is hunkering down to supply nutrients to a baby and therefore your sex drive goes capoot.
I love ortho lo but my dr. wants me to take nuvaring because she says the hormones are lower...maybe this would help?

creativename · 06-30-2007, 01:56 AM

Try a different form of birth control. The reason they make so many is because women need or react to different things. Some pills work for me while others don't. Try out new options!

06-05-2007, 07:00 PM	#1
angel04 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 6	pill killed my sex life! HELP Over the past 3 years I was on the pill for a year and a half, off of it for a little over a year, and have now been back on it for about 3 months. Ever Since I got back on, It's been EXTERMELY difficult for me to have an orgasm, and I RARELY get wet, and we now have to use lubricant. I just got married a month ago, and our sex has cut down dramatically since we got married, and I think this is to blame. He feels like he can't satisfy me, and I lose interest because I get frusterated that I cant orgasm. I've switched 3 diffierent kinds of pills in 3 months because of this and none seem to help. Anyone know what kind would help? Does this happen with the nuva ring? I'm interested in it, and was wondering if that has helped anyone, or if theres anything out there that can help me? I don't want to get off the pill altogether because we are not ready for kids!!!

06-20-2007, 06:41 PM	#2
em07 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1	re birth control hi you need to come of the pill quick time DO NOT listen to what doctors tell you about it. i was on the pill and it completly ruind every thing for me me and my partner nearly split up. also ive had freinds who have been on it and experienced proplems to. the best thing to tell you is use condoms i no many people dont like them. try the non homonal coil. hope that helps

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06-29-2007, 02:54 PM	#3
KD22 VIP Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 60	My doc says that when you're on the pill it tells ur body that ur preggo all month long so you lose that vibrant happy and 'sexy' feeling when you're ovulating. Your body is hunkering down to supply nutrients to a baby and therefore your sex drive goes capoot. I love ortho lo but my dr. wants me to take nuvaring because she says the hormones are lower...maybe this would help?

06-30-2007, 01:56 AM	#4
creativename Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 28	Try a different form of birth control. The reason they make so many is because women need or react to different things. Some pills work for me while others don't. Try out new options!