how effective is the pill??

**daniee.l** · 04-18-2008 03:03 AM

can some one tell me how effective the pill is please iv been on it for bout 5 months but im am always forgeting 2 take it thanks.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-18-2008 03:17 AM

Originally Posted by daniee.l

can some one tell me how effective the pill is please iv been on it for bout 5 months but im am always forgeting 2 take it thanks.

Hi daniee, it's like any tablet that you take for any reason, you have to keep taking them or they don't work.

I actually as just going to let another threader know, after giving her sound advise on how "not to forget" that as i was in a hurry, trying to reply here on the Forum back and forth, and get to work, i well, um, forgot....lol... Just so she knows that it can happen.

But, the advice that i gave her, was to put the packet somewhere where you can't help but see it, every morning, ie) by your hair brush, makeup( the other day mine was by the makeup well, i took the makeup with me didn't i and put it on in the car), must have sense of humor.

But, by doing this its much easier not to forget.

If you are sexually active, then you are best to have him use a Condom until you have gone through your menstral cycle, and once over your okay to go again.

Always play it safe, just in case.

It's hard to remember when it's not "programmed" as such, as a every day thing to do, just as much as it is hard to de-programme something you are used to doing every day that you want to stop.

So, safer if that makes sense to have it in sight where you can't miss it, even by the toothbrush can help.

Hope that helps.

CW

**daniee.l** · 04-18-2008 03:39 AM

thanks for the advise i do keep them in my bag becoz then if i forget to take it iv got it with me wen i do remember. i am sexualy active with my boyfriend but thers no chance of him puttin a condom on he would jus laugh at me lol. can u tel me does it matter wat time i take it does it have to be at the same time everyday? thanks for replying.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-18-2008 03:50 AM

Originally Posted by daniee.l

thanks for the advise i do keep them in my bag becoz then if i forget to take it iv got it with me wen i do remember. i am sexualy active with my boyfriend but thers no chance of him puttin a condom on he would jus laugh at me lol. can u tel me does it matter wat time i take it does it have to be at the same time everyday? thanks for replying.

Now you probably worked out that i'm older than you but i promise i "won't sound like your mum", is older sister ok? lol.

The bag thing is not going to work... Here i am with nictotine chewys in there to "remind" me but i don't see them? Ahhh.

So, have a think about other places, cause if you forget to take them, then you've got them with you, when you remember? See??

Okay, well, in a relationship, it's often good to discuss lots of things, i can understand what you are saying and i'm not about to say " have you told him you keep forgetting?" although i bet it would be no? Because same thing as the condom.

Sister remember? So maybe, first of i can say, important to work out that you "have" to remember so find your little spot. And, don't be ashamed to tell him ah, forgot today, buy ones with ribs or something and say, " babe, can we give this a go to see what it feels like?", if you have to, he may think that's sexy... Then you can ease him into the next time, how does that sound?

Well from my experience, and i posed those questions back then so i think it's safe to say nothing has changed, but within a 24 hr period is ok, doesn't matter if it's 7am or 12pm, so to speak, as long as it is daily.

Have a review above, doubt you want to worry about it every month

ahhhh, that would be a bummer.....

CW

**daniee.l** · 04-18-2008 04:07 AM

thanks agen for ur advise and im gonna put them sumwhere else and i do have to worry every month bcoz this is a regular thing and yea it is a bummer. i think he doesnt feel so concernd as i am because hes quite abit older than me hes 25 an im 17 an has 2 little girls already i wouldnt be 2 upset if i did get pregnant as one day i would love him 2 be the father of my baby and i would never have an abortion. im scared 2 get pregnant tho as i had a miscarage wen i 14 an in my rebelion years should i say this was a horrible experience even tho i was really young and i didnt want the baby i couldnt help but blame myself but its jus 1 of them things thanks 4 listenin 2 me its juis nice to talk bout it sumtimes my boyfriend doesnt no this thanks agen.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-18-2008 04:20 AM

Your welcome.

You know when i was your age, i truly wished there was something like this here as well, i mean, who do you talk to?

It's understandable as well, you obviously have lots of feelings for this guy, and if he doesn't think it's a concern as he has little ones, but your not ready, as i said before, you have to look after number 1! When your ready, you'll know because you will want to.

And, you should never ever ever blame yourself over the miscarrage, why would you want a child at 14, and your body may not have been ready for it physically, there would be a million reasons why that occured and none of it would be because of you not being ready mentally if that makes sense.

Think we were all rebellious in many ways, hate to tell you this, but you can still feel young and rebellious older, it's fun not to get to wound up with age...

You can continue if you want to get anything else of your chest, that is what this forum is about...

I tend to think not many people are on here at this time, i am in Australia and most are American or English from what i have seen and they are therefore either asleep or of to work, one of the two.

Can i ask how long you have been going out, sounds like your happy but sometimes it takes a while to be together until you can talk to each other about stuff.

CW

**daniee.l** · 04-18-2008 05:26 AM

i do have alot of feelings for him i never fort i could love sum one so much and his girls are great i mean i wouldnt be wiv him if i didnt love him its not jus him i have to worry about its the kids aswell i wouldnt want 2 ever upset them they hav had enough to deal wiv regards to ther mum!! we have only bin together 4 about 6 months but it jus feels right if u no wat i mean. and the miscarrage was kinda my fault i carried on drinkin heavily and doin all the things i shouldnt do but it happens. yea im in england and im at work so im on the internet all day lol thanks for all your help

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-18-2008 05:45 AM

Originally Posted by daniee.l

i do have alot of feelings for him i never fort i could love sum one so much and his girls are great i mean i wouldnt be wiv him if i didnt love him its not jus him i have to worry about its the kids aswell i wouldnt want 2 ever upset them they hav had enough to deal wiv regards to ther mum!! we have only bin together 4 about 6 months but it jus feels right if u no wat i mean. and the miscarrage was kinda my fault i carried on drinkin heavily and doin all the things i shouldnt do but it happens. yea im in england and im at work so im on the internet all day lol thanks for all your help

Hey, lol, i am accustomed to England, i have been writing to mine for 5 months, so i know the time perfectly.....

You know here's another of my little secrets, i left home at 16 and a half, well i have stated that, but i became a Nanny, caring for two little girls, guess that is why i posed the question or related.

Tough call at that age, but a great feeling, sure you feel the same.

Well i think he would have liked me, or did, the man of the house but i bought a cat, instead to love, haha, sorry but well, he wasn't my type to start with let alone, i wasn't ready.

You are taking alot on your shoulders for a young women with those little ones, as i did, their mum was totally out of the picture i can understand that.. And yes, when your in love, your in love i comprehend...

My first love, was at your age, 17, i met him at a nightclub heaven forbit, he was stricking, and me to if i can say so, although i never thought that, but well others always commented... And well he had a hot car, but he drove me around in a ford stationwagon $200 worth, with no back window for 3 months just to make sure i loved him.. He was my first love and in fact up until 28... On and of, there was just something i can never explain....

Well love it is still not your fault regardless, you are speculating, i drank not at 14 but at 17, but if you can understand, there are still many reasons, as i said before, so again, forget it, that is something you never want to blame yourself over, as it is not something that is sciense, but happens.. Of course we say, well if i didn't and if i did this, and ... then you could use the same scenario with the pill and condom, what will be will be, simple.

Doubt that i've helped well, i hope that i've been that what do you call it?

Female to female chat, understanding of another human being, male or female, not relevant.

But, i'm glad if i have made you feel easier because, life is life who knows what tomorrow brings.

Enjoy your day, and your man, but as i said, one thing i have learnt truly about relationships is that no one bloody communicates, regardless until it's too late, and well then it's too late.

So "sister advice" communicate, nothing to lose everything to gain, without it well, he says, she says, he knows, she knows, but nothing together if you know what i mean...

You have a good head on you at least you feel and you ask, so nothing wrong with that in my books.

CW

**daniee.l** · 04-18-2008 06:31 AM

yea thanks agen for all ur help and hopefully il stop forgetin my pill now lol

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-18-2008 06:36 AM

Originally Posted by daniee.l

yea thanks agen for all ur help and hopefully il stop forgetin my pill now lol

"Never know your luck in a big city/country" You'll do fine...

Enjoy your day, eh! I learnt that one the eh bit....

Last note:

" Um, yep you can"....

CW

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