I been off the pill for 4 yrs. For about 18 months I been experiencing cramping, on and off bleeding, and lower back pain. And the problem is I havent been on a regular period. Last June I had my papsmear done, and the OBGYN told me that everything came back negative. That the only problem was that I wasnt ovulation, which meant that I didn't have a mestrual period. I been also experiencing discomfort after I have contact with my husband. After a few hours I started spotting. I have cramping and lower back pain. Honestly I hate being like this, not being able to feel normal. To be able to make love to my husband, without being worried that I'm going to start spotting (minor bleeding but not heavy w/cloths like a normal period). If anybody has been in my shoes. Please advise me on to what should I do. I'm thinking about going to see my doctor. I really hope is nothing serious. Also I would like to be able to be a mother soon, but like this how am I going to.