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I know we've gone into this before and it may or may not apply but it bears repeating since we have new readers/posters all the time. One of the most self defeating things a man can do when the sexual relationship is nonexistant to iffy, is to do or plan something with the expectation it will lead to sex, this works fine with a responsive woman but not an unresponsive one.

I think there are a limited range of possible causes of a woman being or becoming unresponsive sexually:
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I have been in this mood since last night. I tried to fight it, but to no avail. I hate it when this episode comes. I wish I can just teleport myself to wherever I want to go.

On the second thought, if I could, where would I go?

To Disneyland where all my dreams come true? well, probably my kiddie dreams - but once I get back home, I realize it's just a fantasy after all.

To SeaWorld? Maybe a good choice for a water person like me. But then, I don't get to ...

So, the back of my neck is burning again. It feels weird. I posted another reply to my original "Burning sensation in the back of my head" thread, for those who want the details. I won't post them here because that would be redundant. Of course, I'm still scared of it being an aneurysm.

I have moved my desk around to accomodate better posture. The hollow of the desk where you're supposed to sit is on the right side of the desk, with the drawers on the right. I, however, ...

I really don't know what's wrong with me. For the past three days (ever since Friday the 13th of all days), my head and neck have been utterly painful. I get pain in my temple area, in my jaw, in my neck and down into my shoulder/ upper arm area. I get very vague nausea but it doesn't interfere with my daily activities, AND I couldn't sleep for a while last night because my right ear was stinging inside like I had some sort of infection, even when I don't!

It started on the right ...

I often think about the choices people make, the choices I've made, often poor choices. In retrospect, actually in some cases even at the time, better options are clear but not taken. People will chose what is less convienient, less safe, less attractive, more difficult but which provides no offsetting gain at all.

I have a clear example of this with snow. The buildings I live in have two sets of outside stairs. One set stays very protected from the weather, these stairs are always ...