I have been reading WildChild's blog post about this, and realized that I have brought a lot of baggage into my past relationships, especially this latest one, not to mention the ton of baggage that I was presented with as well. I had been living in my past trying to live in the now. This, I believe have wrecked havoc not only to me as a person, but also to my previous BF. I have lived a happy life while we were together, in close proximity or not, it was fulfilling, such ...