Sweetheart, You have to hold the love close to you in your heart. You know it's there. It comes through you, not just to you. Watch a funny movie, read a good book, make him a snuggly afghan, take a walk, write in your diary. You know this will pass.

When do you think you two will be able to move in together so these tears will be replaced with tears of joy?

Hi WC,

Not normally used to posting to blogs but today's a rather non-descript Friday so I'm going places I don't usually go.

I may actually disagree in that people generally take the safe route over the path less traveled. Well, for me that's true. The safer, more conventional choices that offer little risk/reward is my personality. That's been true more practically all of my life's decisions.

Carrying that over into your analogy of the staircase, I tend to believe that most people tend to continue the travel the well worn path no matter what. Change and breaking of routines sometimes are either too tough or too inconvenient to undertake. Thus, they'd rather go the way they usually go and hope nothing happens as opposed to doing something different.

I'm not sure if you intentionally made this as a way for one to look at their inner selves. I know that was my first impression and responded as such.

Well when you are done with one thing, you can move on to new things. What happened with the zoo?

Well I am glad you love BBQ's there ACE....

Aww Ace, come on back to us. Sometimes its really hard to see our blessings but they are there...and there are so many people here who love you. Don't hurt yourself, you hurt us when you do that too. It will be okay. It really will, how can we help? What can we do? I always hated that saying, this too shall pass. Especially because it is said at the worst possible times. Then it got said during a really big one once, and here we are...ever since then, it has worked. What works for you?

Just saw this, Sweetie. NO!!!!

I try everyday. And just thinking about you makes me smile, knowing that I have a home in your heart, Mum. I love you dearly!

When you need laughter in your life, laugh with someone and they shall laugh back.

When you need a smile, to enlighten you, smile at everyone and watch the smiles be given back.

It is in this beauty that you will walk the earth, with the same beauty within and in doing so, be happy every day.

I can understand that. Even at my age and married as long as I have been, you know my dad knows that we have sex, but I still wouldn't want to discuss that with him. Its still too funny though.

Nonetheless, this was a great post! There is hope out there!!!

Its just...so embarassing...

like...MY DAD? ahhhh!

How did I miss this?
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You are cracking me up! You say that like you think he doesn't know...deep down he does, but he'll never let on...its a parent thing you know. Go on...try some ice...it will take the heat away! LOL!!

I go red very easily...especially with him. If I think about him knowing im no longer a virgin?

.....omfg...Im red again

But you never let on to your dad and he is none the wiser...embarrassed? Are you kidding? I would be ecstatic, bruises, wow...if it was fun I say do it again!

Nothing beats revenge sex, lol.

Happens all the time, different personalities and people whom don't trust until they get to know you

yeahhhh...needless to say I was a wee bit embarassed

Holy !!!! A DOORKNOB?? I don't even want to know what you guys were doing now! Okay, not necessarily that I did before but holy ! I usually say, where, hmm, how did THAT get there? I'm still laughing about that whole dad asking and door knob bit.

I know! My dad asked why I had a bruise on my leg...

I didn't wanna tell him it was from a door knob