Well I've never blogged before but thought perhaps I'd try my hand at this. It will just contain little bits of information or pass along things I find interesting and think others may also. 
saddened
Posted 10-22-2009 at 05:45 AM by Miya
Why is it that here on the board, as in RL I suppose, you do one thing innocently questions someone's intent and suddenly you're on their ****list forever?
When I first joined I noticed a snide comment being made to another user so I PM'd HIM and said something about it and HE in turn, apparently buddies with this person, spun around and told them something (though I've never known what) and now the other is irritated with me.
Why create drama that's not necessary and shoot arrows at someone without even giving a good reason or opportunity for the other to explain??? Then, why act immature about it and make comments in other post regarding it?
The person this blog is directed at is intelligent and contributes a great deal but has handled this entire issue quite childishly IMHO. She has some growing up to do especially with lashing out without direct confrontation and taking the attitude of a person being presumed guilty till proven innocent.
Never follow the white rabbit.
When I first joined I noticed a snide comment being made to another user so I PM'd HIM and said something about it and HE in turn, apparently buddies with this person, spun around and told them something (though I've never known what) and now the other is irritated with me.
Why create drama that's not necessary and shoot arrows at someone without even giving a good reason or opportunity for the other to explain??? Then, why act immature about it and make comments in other post regarding it?
The person this blog is directed at is intelligent and contributes a great deal but has handled this entire issue quite childishly IMHO. She has some growing up to do especially with lashing out without direct confrontation and taking the attitude of a person being presumed guilty till proven innocent.
Never follow the white rabbit.
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I'm sorry you had this experience. Communication is tricky business and doing it all in writing where there are no facial expressions, no tonality or body language to augment the words, makes it even easier to be misunderstood. That's why I sometimes may over explain things - I'm trying to ensure that it will be understood. LOL. Even then it's iffy. People put their own spin on things based on their own attitudes and experience.
Hopefully this will blow over.Posted 10-23-2009 at 11:49 PM by WildChild
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Happens all the time, different personalities and people whom don't trust until they get to know youPosted 11-01-2009 at 04:05 AM by CHANDLERS WISH 
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How did I miss this?
Miya, we like you And I think you're a great poster who helps a lot of people. I don't want ANYBODY to make you feel like you aren't wanted here, and I have noticed your absence.
If there's anything going on, even behind the scenes, that would break the rules in a regular post, or that makes you uncomfortable in any way, don't be afraid to let me or a mod know. We're here for a reason.
Feel better! <3Posted 11-02-2009 at 09:24 PM by Little
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