http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/ en Thu, 20 Nov 2008 19:50:11 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/ http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/ymeveronica/78-my-husband-cheated.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 05:39:40 GMT i dont know what to do ive been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 we have a wonderful 6 yr old son. i just found out my husband has been cheating on me with a co worker shes a older women. he says he felt he needed love when it all started he says i wasnt there for him when he needed me the most.. he wants us to work things out and im willing to for my son and me i love him with all my heart but im confused what if he does it again or what if its not over with the older lady i need help someone please i dont know what to do ive been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 we have a wonderful 6 yr old son. i just found out my husband has been cheating on me with a co worker shes a older women. he says he felt he needed love when it all started he says i wasnt there for him when he needed me the most.. he wants us to work things out and im willing to for my son and me i love him with all my heart but im confused what if he does it again or what if its not over with the older lady i need help someone please ]]> ymeveronica http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/ymeveronica/78-my-husband-cheated.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/75-whats-word.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:09:27 GMT TUMOR... .Fear.Tears.Death.Medication.Family.Hope.? TUMOR...
.Fear.Tears.Death.Medication.Family.Hope.? ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/75-whats-word.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/silvertae/73-back.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 21:44:42 GMT I'm back to having fun on the internet after disappearing for a while to focus on finishing up my masters project and thesis. I'm totally finished with the masters now and just waiting for my results. Graduating in Dec.

My sister's coming to visit in a week and a half and then my mom is coming in the middle of Dec. It will be good to see them and do some touristy stuff.

I spent the weekend away in Killarney with my boyfriend. We had a good time visiting some cool sights (a castle and an 18th century mansion) as well as going on a scenic drive through the mountains. It did rain most of the time though, which sucked. ]]> silvertae http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/silvertae/73-back.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/72-discovery.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 02:27:21 GMT well...the verdict is IN...My doctor has reason to suspect that I have a tumor on my pituitary gland...so to confirm it...I must go and see an endocrineologist. Am I worried? The only answer that I came up with was No, because I have complete faith in my Lord. ********** another thing...work is going great. I had the flu, so I missed thursday...but today, I feel better!! how many people actually read my boring blog? lol well...the verdict is IN...My doctor has reason to suspect that I have a tumor on my pituitary gland...so to confirm it...I must go and see an endocrineologist. Am I worried?
The only answer that I came up with was No, because I have complete faith in my Lord.

**********
another thing...work is going great. I had the flu, so I missed thursday...but today, I feel better!!

how many people actually read my boring blog? lol ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/72-discovery.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/71-feeling.html Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:10:22 GMT touch, smell, hear me just a little bit longer Im not ready to be free feel, help, hold me give me more time. the feathers arent grown on my wings listen, laugh, and love with me and teach me wrong from right ****** i dunno...I needed to write touch, smell, hear me
just a little bit longer
Im not ready to be free

feel, help, hold me
give me more time.
the feathers arent grown on my wings

listen, laugh, and love with me
and teach me wrong from right


******

i dunno...I needed to write ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/71-feeling.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/69-blah.html Sat, 01 Nov 2008 02:52:44 GMT Somedays, I hate life...
I've worked TWO WEEKS straight, 8 hours a day...of cleaning poo, doing dog's anal glands, cleaning cages, selling animal stuff, feeding and watering animals, counting stock, fronting and facing shelves, putting out DOG FOOD...and listening to my boss complain about me...to me.
lol, funny story actually...I called her on her cell, and she began to yap about me...saying how I dont pull my weight at the store...yadda yadda yadda, right? well, I said
"Do you know who this is?"
and she said no, so I said it was me...

TALK about making me feel worthless.

and I sprained my wrist...OUCH. ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/69-blah.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/miffed23/67-rant.html Wed, 29 Oct 2008 19:06:44 GMT I want a man.... Rant over. Phew, i feel better. I want a man....

Rant over.

Phew, i feel better. ]]> miffed23 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/miffed23/67-rant.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/66-new-puppy.html Wed, 15 Oct 2008 03:59:08 GMT I adopted a dog today!!! He is 3 years old and is black and white, and is the CUTEST thing ever....I absolutely love him!!!!! I adopted a dog today!!!
He is 3 years old and is black and white, and is the CUTEST thing ever....I absolutely love him!!!!! ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/66-new-puppy.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/thack/65-lifes-lessons.html Sat, 11 Oct 2008 22:32:12 GMT This is the first blog I ever posted- again, it was done on myspace, and the responses I got from this were really uplifting, SO, I share it.

Life has a strange way of teaching people things, it has a very harsh way of doing this indeed. The people who come out of it are not those who choose to forget about it, but better yet, who choose to learn from it, and not cut out a large portion of their life, but those who can see what happened, make a conscious effort to remedy it, and stand and fight for what is right will be happier in the end.



Those who run away from life's such learning experiences will only be faced with the same lessons later on down the road, and feel all the same pain and anguish that they felt during the first lesson.



Take each day in stride, learn to build bridges instead of burning them, learn to interface with those who are closest to you, and live FOR the day, but not ONLY that day. There is to much to look back on in life, good or bad, that defines who we are as people.



Far to often, we get focused on the problems, when in reality, we should be focusing on the solutions.


There are no new situations any more, everything has been done, and every problem has been overcome by so many others. There is strength alone in that, knowing that someone else, somewhere else, has been through exactly what you are going through right now, and worked through it for a happier healthier life, instead of running away and losing a lot of people that matter to them in the process. No problem is to fully blame on one person, both (or more) played a key role in how the problem developed and it will take everyone involved, and more, to fix the problem most of the time.


(one of the best dreams and most productive dreams I have ever had right there. enjoy)

-Ty ]]> thack http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/thack/65-lifes-lessons.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/thack/64-looking-back.html Sat, 11 Oct 2008 22:28:41 GMT This is the 2nd blog I have ever posted, (I did it on myspace first--got some good feedback, so I figured I would share it here)



Looking Back
Current mood: focused


A lot has happened in my life time, it has definitely not been an easy road to where I am today, and today is by no means a picnic. But I am here, and this is what is laid out in front of me, so that is what I have to deal with, overcome and grow from. I am being handed this grave task and situation for a purpose, I am to learn from it, and figure out where to go from there. There are certain aspects of what is going on in my life today that cannot change, namely my son, Alex. Without me, there would be no Alex, and without ~her~ there would be no Alex, so I refrain from trying to hate her for what is going on. Instead I pray for her, so that she may find her way because I know that we all need help from time to time, and sometimes for those who will not ask, you must offer and pray for them. So, I pray.

I have been looking back at a lot of things, much further back then my time as an adult. I have been looking at a lot of things during times where I have some time to just sit and ponder stuff, and remember. I have said a lot of things to people, and I have even done some things to people that I regret. I have never been an evil person or a "bad" person though. A lot of the things I am sorry for are just miniscule acts that we probably all did at one time or another during our lifetime. And I have made peace with all of those from my childhood, no regrets from childhood. I had a good father growing up and he endured a lot of things in order to make my family as happy as we could be, and as comfortable as we could be. If I take anything from my childhood, it's that if you are going to dedicate yourself to something and feel that it's meaningful and worth it, family is just that.

I then look at my adult life so far, and honestly, no regrets. I would do better if I got a second chance, but I would not change much. I am still learning, as we all are, every day is a new experience, a new adventure and we need that to grow into the people we want to be. Searching for one's self is not an easy task, but you must start where you want to finish it seems, if you wish to be successful in your task.

I do not feel like a failure because of where I am right now in life. I did not fail, I am who I am, there are things about me that I can change, but I can never change ~who~ I am. And I do not want to change ME. I have done things that I am happy with and done things that I disappointed myself in doing, but never did I do anything that would be considered horrible, or dishonorable. I can look back at my 8 years as an adult, and do it without guilt. I tried when I was supposed to try; I loved when I could, I was a friend when I was needed, and I supported when there was someone who needed support. I was and still am an honorable man, loyal to those who have earned my loyalty, and a true friend to those that I count as friends as well. I can look back, and knowing what I know now, sleep at night peacefully.

So, where am I going with this? I am not really sure, there is so much rolling around in my head right now, seeing how people show their true colors when they are scared, how people would rather avoid then remedy, it's very odd. And this is not directed at anyone in particular, I am just remembering over the years, all the people who I have seen do this. More people than probably realize, do this. , I was guilty of it myself for a while, instead of dealing with an issue, looking for a solution, I just removed myself from the problem, thinking that "ok, now I'm not in this, the issues will all go away". But that is not the case, and I am learning that more than anything else right now. I have said it before in a different blog, fight for what you believe in. Don't blow your friends off, they mean well, and your family only has your best interests in mind, but in the end, you have to live with yourself.

When it's all dark and no one else is around, it's you who you have to talk to. (Yeah, sounds crazy I know lol) But, you will always be your worst critic and never your biggest fan, it's just human nature. So, listen to your friends and know what they are telling you, but remember, it's not THEIR life that they are dealing with, they are trying to live their dream of "being the stronger person" and do what they think they should do in your situation, but do you really think that they could do it themselves? People react differently in every situation, especially ones that are very difficult and life changing.

And I would just like to take this moment, to thank all my friends and family for their thoughts, opinions, and help through all of this. I valued your opinions and I had to make my own choices, and I must live my life that way. And when you need me, I will be there for you, to offer you my experiences and thoughts, and what I have learned. But I will not try to make the decision for you, for that is not my task, that is yours alone and you must take that step on your own.

-Ty ]]> thack http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/thack/64-looking-back.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/63-woooo-boy.html Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:38:53 GMT seriously...why do I feel like I dont belong sometimes? I dont get it...sometimes I feel like people avoid me... I hate it. oh...Sunday, while working at the pet store...this guy came in...and he wasnt wearing a ring...good sign, and we was HOTTT...like, wow...cream myself right then and there hot....I hope he comes in again... seriously...why do I feel like I dont belong sometimes?
I dont get it...sometimes I feel like people avoid me...
I hate it.
oh...Sunday, while working at the pet store...this guy came in...and he wasnt wearing a ring...good sign, and we was HOTTT...like, wow...cream myself right then and there hot....I hope he comes in again... ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/63-woooo-boy.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/miffed23/62-never-going-find-love.html Sun, 05 Oct 2008 19:29:07 GMT ...not that im particularly looking... but i was thinking today that its just not going to happen...

The reason being, work - how sad is that? I work 8 - 6 and then i have to go back at 9(ish). The only day i have off is a sunday and thats mainly spent cleaning, gardening, washing etc... Honestly, i cant see myself even 'dating' someone whilst i work at this job.

It would be completely unjustified to expect someone to cope with all that.... maybe i should quit? :rolleyes: ]]> miffed23 http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/miffed23/62-never-going-find-love.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/61-giving-up.html Tue, 30 Sep 2008 06:59:57 GMT AHHHHH....Im getting so sick and tired of this...its always the same...My sister yells at my eldest neice for something that is NOT her fault.
For example...
their step-dad got a basset hound, right?
well, the eldest was playing, and the pup got a little over excited, and bit my neices lip...leaving a GOUGE the size of a dime...so she had to go for stitches.
if it wasn't for me, she wouldnt have brought her daughter to the hospital...and she BLAMED the poor kid.
"well, dont stick your face in his..."
uhm...excuse me? she doesnt know any better than the pup, she's never been taught, you twat.
3 stitches later, and a few tears from my girl, we're back to square one with her "mom" ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/61-giving-up.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/59-i-dunno-unfishinhed-poem.html Sun, 28 Sep 2008 02:58:13 GMT Whispers in the dark can you hear me candlelight is dim the light before my eyes lay your head down and close your eyes feel around, and find me play along with the game.... Whispers in the dark
can you hear me
candlelight is dim
the light before my eyes
lay your head down
and close your eyes
feel around, and find me
play along with the game.... ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/59-i-dunno-unfishinhed-poem.html http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/58-you-guys-going-hate-me.html Sat, 27 Sep 2008 02:31:44 GMT ....I was...HAD to be medically withdrawn from school....I went to the doctors...and yep, I have to let my back heal... the good news... I love sex dreams... Go Joe Jonas!!!! **whoooooo boy*** :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: ....I was...HAD to be medically withdrawn from school....I went to the doctors...and yep, I have to let my back heal...

the good news...
I love sex dreams...
Go Joe Jonas!!!!
**whoooooo boy***
:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: ]]> acerousme http://www.womens-health.com/boards/blogs/acerousme/58-you-guys-going-hate-me.html