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Someone help me please

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by , 12-09-2008 at 04:25 PM (741 Views)
I love my boyfriend to death. We plan to get married soon. But in the last few months I have lost my sexual drive for him. I love to hold him when we sleep, i love hanging out with him. I love the time we spend together but i really don't have a sexual appetite. We argue about it all the time. Does stress play a role in you sex drive. I have been madd stressed lately. A few months back i started bleeding. it lasted 45 days. At that time i noticed that my stress level had gone up. I was used to living carefree and with no responsibility. Then all at once i got a job after a 3 year search, got my first apartment ( my boyfriend and i). For the first time in life i sat down and noticed that i had a lot of things that needed fixing in my life. That is when the bloody month came. And that is also when my sex drive fell out of existence. I know that i love him because before in my player days i would have cheated in a minute. I can't bring myself to talk to another man unless i bring my current boo up. so i know i love him. Can someone tell me what is wrong with me and does stress have anything to do with your sex drive.

So so lost in love
San Francisco

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  1. pictures's Avatar
    its not the stress, its the emotions that you are having with this guy, you stated you can jump any guy without any responsibilites, but now you have this guy attached to you.
    the issue is you listen to your friends and take their advice.
    is this what you want. and remember this is one guy, how hard is it to make this one guy happy. does he offer security and the comfort that you are looking for. men are not emotional, more like "the now moment" right now and then leave me alone feeling. nothing is wrong with U.
    you just have mixed feelings.
  2. CHANDLERS WISH's Avatar
    I agree with the above person... Pictures.. Your whole life has changed, sex was for fun before, you were carefree, now you have responsibilities, a job, an apartment, a man... You are looking at it with fear, instead of embrassing what you have and going for it.

    CW
  3. N01's Avatar
    there is absolutley a connection between stress adn sex. msnbc just did a article titled "More sex, less stress". wish i could post the link for you, but it's not allowed.

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