Miya's Little Bits

Why is it that here on the board, as in RL I suppose, you do one thing innocently questions someone's intent and suddenly you're on their ****list forever?

When I first joined I noticed a snide comment being made to another user so I PM'd HIM and said something about it and HE in turn, apparently buddies with this person, spun around and told them something (though I've never known what) and now the other is irritated with me.

Why create drama that's not necessary ...