Thread: he's just not that into you

Originally Posted by Kung Fu Kitty

i try to steer clear of self help books like "hes just not that into you" or "the rules" dating is like dieting,there are a million methods,a million tactics,but hardly any of them really work.
if you want to lose weight..exercise and eat good.
if you want to meet a nice guy,set the darned book down,and put yourself out there. neither one has a gurantee.

LOL, was reading a book about "bad boys" tired something the guy recommended as essential. Had a very POd man. He thought I'd lost my mind or something. The book got shelved. Everyone is different, every relationship is different and some of these books are really about such a narrow type that they really aren't worth while.