hei i think m heading down to that problem too.u see my boyfrend and me are not seeing each other.we meet each other once a week n then talk over the phone for the rest of the week.but then we dont hav much to say to each other.the other night he was askin me whether it was ok if he dont call me everyday.i did not say anythin but that i will miss him if he does that.do u guyx think that m heading down that road too.if so guyx help me.

Hi tsukushi, i moved this to a new thread, as your circumstances based on your previous posts may be very different

I am wondering if he is still in love with the woman that "shares" his problems medically where having kids are concerned and whilst you did take him away from her, but not intentionally and certainly not deliberately he made that decision whether his heart is actually still with her....

He is giving you lots of signs of "non communication" no guys do not do that, they do not say "is it okay if he doesn't call you everyday", off course you miss him you fell for him but if a heart belongs to someone else that's hard to jump over.

I suggest people read your other thread before replying and i hope that we can help you.

And when they do, i corrected your lovely way of speaking hense probably why you didn't reply to your thread in the end .... So guys forget the spelling or ways of her wording haha. please.

CW

Yes, in my opinion, you have a problem. If a guy says "Is it ok if I don't call you everyday", that means "I'm going to begin NOT to call you at all". I did a quick review of your other threads, and it seems like you have been having a problem in this relationship.

In your text above, you say that when you talk on the phone, you don't have much to say to eachother? If I didn't have much conversation between me and my girl, I wouldn't continue to call her either. Why don't you have anything to talk about? There's always something to talk about. How was your day? What did you do at work/school? How did that class go? Did the professor trip over his microphone wire again? That was real funny! I wish he would have fallen on his head...come on...what do you mean there is nothing to discuss?

If this is person you really want to spend time with, then you need to show some interest in each other. If one person has no interest in the other, then you're in trouble. If (as in your case) neither of you is showing interest, then you're doomed. Relationships are work. Sometimes they're hard work. You can't just expect that you're going to have a great relationship if you get on the phone with eachother and nobody says anything.

I'm guessing that from how you type, you're accustomed to texting A LOT. I've heard of people texting THOUSANDS of times in a month. If I'm describing you, then maybe what you ought to consider is putting down the cell phone a little and focus on actual communicaton with your b/f. Like face-to-face eye-to-eye communication. You should be enjoying eachother at this stage in your relationship. You should be WANTING to speak with eachother on the phone, not just listening to dead space.

Cheers.