The question you have to ask is
Why are you uncomfortable with her having guy friends?
Some things you want to pay attention to
- Your protecting her because you think these men can offer her something you can't
- Your trying to protect your investment. So you act jealous and controlling to limit outside threats
- If you need to know where she is at all times. What you are subconsciously doing is making sure she is not with someone else.
- There is something called a double bind. You may not be really to interested in her day however what you are trying to find is maybe catch her in a lie. More insecurity and lack of trust.
You make a common mistake that most men make. That is that you are acting like a Wussy. My intention is not to offend but to enlighten.
Issues of your behavior:
- Too invested
- Too controlling
- Too insecure
- Most importantly you weren't acting like a man who was in control!
Women have enough issues in there life they dont need there BF to add to them. You should be her security blanket not the fire.
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You will not get her back by calling her constantly. Give her some space. Let her find out that you moved on.
Do not tell her!
The best way to get her back is to not try to get her back, but do things that she would want in her life.
Good luck.
Hope this helps
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