Thread: once again..... i need help...

a couple of weeks ago, we decided to just be friends. i felt like we couldnt be anything more, i couldnt see a future with her. but we still talk every now and again. last week i was at a going away party for a friend of mine. there was this girl there that i have kinda known for a while. we ended up hooking up that night. a couple of days past and we went out and hung out with friends. i have been staying the night at her house ever since then. i know we really need to slow down, but i like spending time with her. she will try to get me to go to the rest. where she bartends so that she can see me. this is leading up to my question. i just turned 22 and shes 25. she i be a little concerned about it? shes mature and maturity is what lacked in alot of my past relationships. good thing is i also passed the big "brother" test.

Originally Posted by 2ndhandsmoke

a couple of weeks ago, we decided to just be friends. i felt like we couldnt be anything more, i couldnt see a future with her. but we still talk every now and again. last week i was at a going away party for a friend of mine. there was this girl there that i have kinda known for a while. we ended up hooking up that night. a couple of days past and we went out and hung out with friends. i have been staying the night at her house ever since then. i know we really need to slow down, but i like spending time with her. she will try to get me to go to the rest. where she bartends so that she can see me. this is leading up to my question. i just turned 22 and shes 25. she i be a little concerned about it? shes mature and maturity is what lacked in alot of my past relationships. good thing is i also passed the big "brother" test.

Its only a problem if you let it be.

She likes you man, your obviously doing somthing right. So keep it up and enjoy your time with her.

Whatever your did that got her attracted in the first place, all you need to do is be that same man and she will continue to enjoy spending her time with you.

Change it and be a nervous wreck around her and it will force her not to trust you and you will seperate.

Good luck wish you the best

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