Rosalee...

Have a little look at your new thread posted and my reply.

You've added another into the aquation..

You work two jobs and either own or pay the rent on your apartment..

You keep stressing that "it's your fault" you knew he was un-employed, you have invested too much time to walk.??????

You are depressed you have stated that in another post, you can't see how strong you are can you? You can't see your self worth? How smart you are? How you look after yourself, financially?

Don't "settle" a word you used DONT..

My ex-husband had a housing trust home in a "good area", he had a problem with his back, he did not work.. It did not stop him buying model cars, a motorbike ( real one) , i worked for myself, i bought commercial property (with him ) but I pay it all.

He now owns a "nice" house in that "good area" and "part" trust me, "part only" of a commercial property, from nothing? not working? whilst I worked my bottom off?

DON'T SETTLE.

I am separated.

CW