All of a sudden, Girlfriend doesn't want to have sex??

**Livelaughlove** · 11-03-2008 09:15 AM

Another book comes to mind "Double your dating by David DeAngelo" Its an ebook and it is a real Eye opener.

Hope this helps and good luck

Live laugh and love

**Syylv** · 11-03-2008 09:53 AM

Wow... never even realized it.. but makes 100% Perfect sense... thank you for that, I showed my mom this and she completely agreed with this, and the decision is, don't talk to her, don't even say were broken up, just don't say anything, if she wants it to work, she will come running. like i said, Actions Speak louder than words, if im not talking to her, something is up, so might as well start now...
Thank you so much for the great help

I really do appreciate this and btw, i looked at the 1st thing, "David Deanglos Mail bags" and did a quick few skim through a couple, and noticed a couple of "Problems" that i am doing, so that will change haha

Thanks again!

*Doesn't mean this is closed, if someone else wants to say something, please do so.*

I'll be back with an update on what happens to if she will call me or not within a week.

**Livelaughlove** · 11-03-2008 10:26 AM

Take it from me there are only three ways men go about getting a womens attention

Disinterest: When a guy sees a girl he finds attractive he ignores her completely..The mysterious type. The problem with this is if she is getting attention from other people she will most likely not even give you the time of day
Interest: Men go up to women and actively pursue them... Depending on how the women feels she will either find this flattering or annoying.
Then there is the Exception.... What he does is show ACTIVE DISINTEREST... He goes near her gets her attention then shows disinterest. By maybe body rocking away from her or even talk to her friends ignoring her, but occasionally make a statment to her.

If you want your girl back you can't wait there and expect her to come crawling back...Women are not trained animals, however some men are. haha j/k

If you want her back strangely enough she has to know that your talking to other women having fun. Then give her a call. She will come back wanting you...

By the way the you have to sign up on his website (give your email) to get the mail bags. Its free and will defiantly change how you conduct yourself around women.

Hope this helps

live laugh and love

**Syylv** · 11-03-2008 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by Livelaughlove

Take it from me there are only three ways men go about getting a womens attention

Disinterest: When a guy sees a girl he finds attractive he ignores her completely..The mysterious type. The problem with this is if she is getting attention from other people she will most likely not even give you the time of day
Interest: Men go up to women and actively pursue them... Depending on how the women feels she will either find this flattering or annoying.
Then there is the Exception.... What he does is show ACTIVE DISINTEREST... He goes near her gets her attention then shows disinterest. By maybe body rocking away from her or even talk to her friends ignoring her, but occasionally make a statment to her.

If you want your girl back you can't wait there and expect her to come crawling back...Women are not trained animals, however some men are. haha j/k

If you want her back strangely enough she has to know that your talking to other women having fun. Then give her a call. She will come back wanting you...

By the way the you have to sign up on his website (give your email) to get the mail bags. Its free and will defiantly change how you conduct yourself around women.

Hope this helps

live laugh and love

Ya, forgot to mention that, my mom also said , "Just don't talk to her, shell come running back, and tell her that you are going out with your brother [Frat Party] and your busy"

Something around that general area, so basicly... just don't talk to her AS MUCH, and go out with my bro to parties, and even without my bro lol.

I will go and sign up with my email too, didn't notice =D

**Livelaughlove** · 11-03-2008 10:55 AM

Originally Posted by Syylv

Ya, forgot to mention that, my mom also said , "Just don't talk to her, shell come running back, and tell her that you are going out with your brother [Frat Party] and your busy"

Something around that general area, so basicly... just don't talk to her AS MUCH, and go out with my bro to parties, and even without my bro lol.

I will go and sign up with my email too, didn't notice =D

Show you have a life, and your an important person. As far as talking to women, Five things women look for in every man.

Preselction by other women
Successfull risk taker
Protector of loved ones
Leader of men
Willingness to show a varitey of emotions.

Get the books i mentioned I said them for a reason.

When you hit 30 posts ill send you a pm with more information.

Live laugh and love

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 11-03-2008 02:55 PM

I think Livelaughlove speaks with wisdom in this regard.

I also think that your Mother is spot on.

Say nothing.. Definately no longer do any of her homework.

I gather something else here. Sorry, but sure you are being way to insecure way too... and it shows and so she laughs, it's also a way of getting out of saying what you are thinking. But, she only comes over to get her homework done, now she is probably still wanting to do so, but stating no sex...

I think that she is going through changes and is slightly "using you" sorry but I do.

Do what the poster has suggested and your Mother, you DO NOTHING, you are NOT AVAILABLE, you simply VANISH over a short period of time and leave her wondering.

The grass is in fact not always greener on the other side.

CW

**Syylv** · 11-03-2008 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

I think Livelaughlove speaks with wisdom in this regard.

I also think that your Mother is spot on.

Say nothing.. Definately no longer do any of her homework.

I gather something else here. Sorry, but sure you are being way to insecure way too... and it shows and so she laughs, it's also a way of getting out of saying what you are thinking. But, she only comes over to get her homework done, now she is probably still wanting to do so, but stating no sex...

I think that she is going through changes and is slightly "using you" sorry but I do.

Do what the poster has suggested and your Mother, you DO NOTHING, you are NOT AVAILABLE, you simply VANISH over a short period of time and leave her wondering.

The grass is in fact not always greener on the other side.

CW

No, you don't have to be sorry, i know that.. your 100% correct in what your saying, and i do feel being used, and its really hard to just do nothing and be unavailable, and vanish, but, i will cancel whenever she wants to do something with me, saying im going to a frat party or something...

Man.. relationships are so hard... but i'm not giving up..

**cmschach** · 11-03-2008 07:00 PM

im not sure cancelling on her when you two make plans is the right idea. there's a difference between "vanishing" and bailing. If its to meet up and do homework just dont make plans...if she wants to spend quality time together (which probably wont happen) give her a shot but go in with your heart guarded. Dont get all mushy and cuddly or needy. Just be confident and ask how things are going for her and put in your two cents about whats going on with you and your social life.

**Syylv** · 11-03-2008 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by cmschach

im not sure cancelling on her when you two make plans is the right idea. there's a difference between "vanishing" and bailing. If its to meet up and do homework just dont make plans...if she wants to spend quality time together (which probably wont happen) give her a shot but go in with your heart guarded. Dont get all mushy and cuddly or needy. Just be confident and ask how things are going for her and put in your two cents about whats going on with you and your social life.

lol i didn't mean ditch at the last minute like what she has been doing with me.. i mean when she wants to do something, say i have plans to do something else... maybe later.

**WildChild** · 11-03-2008 08:04 PM

What a lot of this advice comes down to is not being needy and finding your own happiness. You need to be with someone because you want to not because you 'need' to. In a healthy relationship, just as in a healthy life, you have balance. You need to get out with your buddies and do things, pursue your own interests, have fun. When you do this you are a more attractive person because you are happy and active, you are more interesting, you bring more to a relationship.

You want a woman who also has active interests and is not waiting for a man to carry her off into the sunset like a knight on a white horse - she will expect you to make her happy and no one can make someone else truly be what they aren't.

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