Thread: ladies and gents please come in and tell me...

OOoOOo and btw, I thought u were referring to me as a pothead who cant give advice ;-)

heh speaking of pot-heads...I always wonder how did I end up with a guy who likes his pot (though he doesnt smoke nearly as much as he (says) he used to) when I dont like the stuff? I dont like the smell, I dont like looking at it, I dont like thinking about it... though I have to say Im not quite as disturbed by it as I used to be.

But yeah... my guy and I have a long-distance thing. We met online, he lives in Canada and I live in Indiana. We see each other about every 3 months and weve been together for almost a year (in January itll be 1 year since we first met).
There have been only a few times when my hackles got raised, and most of those issues were settled quickly (the only one not settled is about the pot).
He apologizes more quickly than any other man Ive known, he argues with me less (thank god), he lets me think Im right *lol* he tells me all the time how beautiful and sexy he thinks I am (I dont really believe him but I love hearing it!), we have a decent sex life (could use a bit more spice, and my sex-drive could be better but other than that.....)
When we first started talking online, we could talk about everything under the sun. Now it seems to be more talking about news articles I read and quite a few sexual jokes/innuendos. And maybe him telling me something his roommate/mom/sister/cousin/nephew did or said.
And when I saw him for the first time in person, I thought "wow. Hes, erm...not that good looking" o.O But he's grown on me

Boy I didnt know I could have so much to say about him *lol*

My relationship has been going on for 2 years now. A few months of first dating we were together living near each other but in the past 1 and a half years he has recently been at university 6 hours away from me.
We don`t have sex often because of this and we only see each other monthly and twice a month if we are lucky or unless he comes down here for a week. When we do have sex it is enjoyable and loveable.
I used to complain he was insensitive but he has changed so much from being a man i would never have dated in my life to a man i cannot be without. He still has a sick sense of humour and is a PC gamer which I believe who he is and I wouldnt change it for the world. I love him.
When we have arguments I tend to go into a sulk and refuse to answer his calls. He gets annoyed but he sulks too. We tend to have arguments quite a lot but we think the reason is because we dont see each other a lot because theyre never anything big. I get jealous quite easily annoyingly but he deals with it well.
I used to have jealous and insecure thoughts about other women but I find that he tells all his friends about me and his work mates and I`ve even had questions from his girl mates about how our anniversary weekend went and I just smile.
I`ve changed so much since I met him. It wasnt the great start to the relationship for the year which i dont wish to go into just to say i wish i could destroy that year into a million pieces but he has transformed me into a confident woman where I can be confident naked around him which most other women cannot do.
Thats all I have to say about my relationship

The relationship im in right now is wonderful. Before last year i feel like (as cheesy and cliche as this is to say) i feel like i didn't know myself fully. i had been in a relationship (to a guy i lost my virginity to) and though i dont regret it i am totally aware that it was an immature relationship that just kind of happened.

Now im much more settled in myself...my boyfriend is wonderfulll. we have very similar views on things and it makes it very easy to talk about anything. i dont like holding back and he won't judge me on any thing i have to say. our sex life is...really really good lol. like...really good. again..we don't hold back between each other with any thing (including what we want in the bedroom). we don't really have "fights" ever...our biggest problem is that we're both indecisive and both giving in nature so if we're trying to figure out going out somewhere it takes forever and im jsut like "HAVE AN OPINIONNNN!!!" but other than that things are really good.. im so happy