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    My name is Jessicca and im new to this. ok to get the the point. My boyfriend was at his friends house and his friends ex girlfried called and was talking to my boyfriend about her and her ex boyfriend she asked my boyfriend if he wanted her to come get him and take him home and he said yes. She took him to this guys house were some people were hangging out and drinking this girl came up to him and started sucking on his neck and he told her to get off and told the other girl to take him home, she said no she was already drunk to drive. he stayed the night and came home the next day were i was at and the first thing he said is "i didnt cheat on you" he told me the whole story. The girls are saying that they had sex and stuff though. He is telling me he swares nothing happend but there telling me all kinds of stuff. WHAT DO I DO? im really confused and i want tp believe my boyfriend please help me

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    You may never know. What motivation do the girls have in this? Does one of them want him? Do they have a reason (in their minds) to pull something like this? You have a choice, either you trust him or you don't. Only you can decide.

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    My opinion is if you trust your boyfriend and won't let the rumors bother you, then believe him. Ignore the girls. If she really was chasing after him all night and he rejected her, she may have started a rumor out of spite. If this is going to make you paranoid and no longer fully trust your boyfriend though, then you could have problems in the long run.

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    My boyfriend was at his friends house and his friends ex girlfried called and was talking to my boyfriend about her and her ex boyfriend she asked my boyfriend if he wanted her to come get him and take him home and he said yes.
    She took him to this guys house
    These two quotes stand out.... 1) He knows this girl "really well", he has to if he is speaking to her, as she rings her ex-boyfriend's house but speaks to your boyfriend and then she asks if he want's a lift home he says yes.

    K.. So then she changes the plans and takes him to a party where supossidly, other girls try it on.

    He defends, they do the classic, "haha", and confuse you.

    Why did she call her ex-boyfriend's house. Why did she speak to your boyfriend, why did she ask if he wanted a lift home and why did she take him to a party instead?

    I would like to know her/and her friends thoughts of your boyfriend,........especially this girl's...

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    you either believe him or the imature girls.
    he told you wich is good and he put a stop to what the one did, wich is good.
    from what he said he respected you.
    alot of people will try to break someone up and make lies about them so they can be with that person. its a classic game.

    why didnt he call you to get a ride back home?

    innocent untill proven guilty, but can you live with the story?

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    there is nothing that will destroy your life more then jealousy. if you really love some one then you have to be able to share them. how old are you? I'm 20 and i wont date anymore, my career comes first and guys second. i have lots of friends with benefits but when i was dating steady i still would not allow myself to be jealous. it's hard but you have to try. if you really love him and you want to stay together, let go of the jealousy

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