Thread: chemistry ?

I've often wondered what it is that makes me attracted to certain people. There's no certain "look" but just yesterday I began to realize that I am typically attracted to arrogant, cocky men. I'm dating someone now who is humble, shy...and very sweet. I love it.....it's totally refreshing. But I too, am heavily attracted to a mans scent. My ex and I used to work together, and I could smell him in an office and know he'd been in there even if he had been gone for 20 minutes or so. I craved his scent.

It's weird the little things that can create chemistry between two.....but I do believe it's true that if you're initially physically attracted, it's hard to ever get past that on a relationship level...anything other than friendship. May be shallow...but truth hurts.

I used to like the arrogant and cocky ones too, but I realized it is those ones who treats you like S..t. But they do have the best sex. The nice ones are too slow for me. I married a nice one, and now I Know why the nice ones are nice,, they are affraid to be cockey and lack self esteem.