orkara

I'm actually surprised by this. I've always thought that taken guys do not like strip clubs because this is what my boyfriend tells me. He says he does not need to because he had me and that only single guys go there...

..... and that even if he was single he still would not go because while girls in the strip clubs were nice to look at, he didn't need to pay for a hard-on because all he had to do imagine and he would get it...

I guess it just depends on the guy then....

caterpillar79

Well, orkara, I have been told that same exact phrase...only to discover later that he went...of course, I was devastated and I felt my trust was betrayed...we talked about it. and I had set the boundary. I know what I want, and I will not settle for anything less - he knows that.

I don't mean to say that you can't trust your bf...he meant well when he said that, believe me. but men are men .... my guy made a wrong judgement, but he expressed how mush he wants to make it up to me and he did. this event made us closer and more open to each other.

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