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Old 03-24-2009, 12:15 PM   #1
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Question was i wrong ?

I stared a new school in January I met this person from my class. I only do math at this school so I only go Mondays Wednesdays and Fridays he dose math English and information tech so he go 5 days per week.

so lets say his name is kemar he was my first friend in the class I gave him my number on a account he wanted a book to borrow I was afraid I wouldn’t remember so I ask him to call and remind me not that I didn’t have other motives .

Therefore, he calls and says he wants to get to know me so we decided we would get to know he other he says he poor and could not afford to take me out so we jus chat not the phone and spend time together at school.

He asks me to spend his birthday at his house so I agree on this day I did not have the money to get him a gift but I treated him to lunch.

After that we head to his house I had the idea that when u taking a girl anywhere u should pay her fare not a most but u know what I mean.

So he got on the bus the conductor is collecting he says pay ur fare no big deal so I did. We got off the bus and on to a taxi now he gave the drive enough money to cover us both because he did not have the change the diver seeing that we were traveling together thought he was paying for me.

While walking to what I thought would be his house, he announces that we will not be going to his house cuz he as smaller sister with whom he shears a room I do not have a problem cuz what would the young children think. Therefore, we go to his cousin’s house we settle down he starts kiss in me so I am thinking sex.

When I am really turn on and so his he cuz he is eject he stops me he needed to smoke before we ave sex he cannot ave sex without smoke (weed) he as it on him but he needs graba (tobacco) this he as to leave to go and buy.

He wants back the money he paid the taxi to buy it so I give it back I but I don’t any change so I give him a $100 he should give me back $50 .up on leaving he inform me we won’t be using any condom because he wants to feel “grip”.

I don’t answer to this cause have my own condom and I know he aint getting any if he aint use any. After a while he comes back smokes in side and wouldn’t stop until I started choking.

Then we srat kiss again I jus wanna have some sex and get out of there ( it had been a While) only to find out his can’t stand up again cuz it was up already and he as uremia ,by the way what is that its pronounced ern-ni-ya. So I stay a while then say I’m really to leave cuz there is some where I have to be so he follows me to the bus stop on his way making a few stops to say to his friends this is my girl .

After this day, he asks me to wait for him while he as English witch last11/2 hour after math but I do. while waiting I met sum new fren male and female, we talk about a lot of things even what we look for in a relationship so 1 guy starts to stand out as he wants the same the that I want lets say his name is Dane .

Dane admits to liking me but says him was try to figure out what kind of person I am before a approaching but the h e realize he waited to long now I start wishing he ad made his move first know all this we never exchanged number as I feared it would go too far.

But kemar is jealous any way and when his class is over he would walk pass and expect me to catch him back he never say any thing about it but he starts making threats like if u ever cheat of me I’d box u down or sum thing like that .

he starts telling me what to do and what not to I don’t do what he says so he makes more threats one day I didn’t go to school and I when to the library he passes me in a taxi and shout that’s why u not him school I was really embarrassed .

Then he starts say I should not ave any friends and of that so want out now but I don’t want to jus leave I am look for sum argument or some.

went I go to school Wednesday a girl tell me he came to school the day before with a hickey on his neck so I called and broke up with him . The problem now is that very day Dane gave me his number we started texting we say we were gonna jus be friends for a while but the chemistry was strong and in a few day we together.

Now whenever I see kemar he as this sad look he does not talk in class any more. my friend that do English say he never talk in that class either he dose not make any more jokes at the teacher or any thing like he jus sits and steers at me when e thinks I’m not look is he gonna be ok.

I made the right choice didn’t weren’t those the signs of what would be an abusive relationship. Dane and me we get along great so far.

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Well, this guy made you his girlfriend without even dating you.. He made all the demands of how, when, where and call me a Mum, but what you did really was quite scary.. You didn't know the guy really and ended up at a place you didn't know as well, guess you were lucky.

He will be fine this is obviously the way he attaches himself to females...

At least "Dane" wanted to get to know you as a person a bit before letting you know that he had liked you..

But, you should curve your appetite just a little until you get to know the boys a bit more I think, that way you know whom you are going out with instead of getting yourself in a situation you have to get out of.

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well honest in jamaica dating is not considered a most and i was trying to understand his situation and not seem vain(living below the poverty line)
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