i need help... - Page 2

**taro** · 04-23-2009, 02:44 AM

i know that i should take initiative and i'm definitely working on that. it's just really hard for me because i've never really been any good at that sort of thing. i'm not good at expressing my feelings, but i'm trying. it's just weird for me because, i'm sad to say, things have become pretty awkward between my boyfriend and myself. i really just don't know how to break the ice which is the hardest part for me. my biggest issue is that i'm actually a pretty blunt person. easing into conversations is very difficult for me and i REALLY don't want him to feel like i'm attacking him (which tends to happen whenever i speak to people).

this is exactly why i appreciate everyone's input on here because everyone has been giving me great tips on breaking the ice. i'm glad to say that so far, everything i've tried has worked beautifully. it seems like only a matter of time before i get laid =D

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-23-2009, 02:53 AM

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it seems like only a matter of time before i get laid =D

LMAO...

**taro** · 04-23-2009, 03:33 AM

haha i wrote that one just for you CW!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-23-2009, 03:37 AM

HAHA..

whooo hooo lol.

**taro** · 04-27-2009, 07:59 PM

UPDATE!

i have officially come out of my rut! phew! lol!

well my boyfriend and i went to my girlfriend's apartment to celebrate her birthday and, long story short, there was a guy there who was being mean to me and he ended up making me cry. so then my boyfriend goes over there, gets in his face, and ends up making him leave. fortunately someone was there to hold him back, otherwise it would've turned out really ugly for that mean guy. anyway that was enough to bring us out of our rut cuz we've had loud and crazy sex every night since! yay! it's apparent that we have been sex-starved for a very long time lol!

THANKS EVERYONE!

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04-23-2009, 02:44 AM	#11
taro VIP Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: California Posts: 37	i know that i should take initiative and i'm definitely working on that. it's just really hard for me because i've never really been any good at that sort of thing. i'm not good at expressing my feelings, but i'm trying. it's just weird for me because, i'm sad to say, things have become pretty awkward between my boyfriend and myself. i really just don't know how to break the ice which is the hardest part for me. my biggest issue is that i'm actually a pretty blunt person. easing into conversations is very difficult for me and i REALLY don't want him to feel like i'm attacking him (which tends to happen whenever i speak to people). this is exactly why i appreciate everyone's input on here because everyone has been giving me great tips on breaking the ice. i'm glad to say that so far, everything i've tried has worked beautifully. it seems like only a matter of time before i get laid =D

04-23-2009, 03:33 AM	#13
taro VIP Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: California Posts: 37	haha i wrote that one just for you CW!

04-27-2009, 07:59 PM	#15
taro VIP Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: California Posts: 37	UPDATE! i have officially come out of my rut! phew! lol! well my boyfriend and i went to my girlfriend's apartment to celebrate her birthday and, long story short, there was a guy there who was being mean to me and he ended up making me cry. so then my boyfriend goes over there, gets in his face, and ends up making him leave. fortunately someone was there to hold him back, otherwise it would've turned out really ugly for that mean guy. anyway that was enough to bring us out of our rut cuz we've had loud and crazy sex every night since! yay! it's apparent that we have been sex-starved for a very long time lol! THANKS EVERYONE!