chica

The sex kinda sucks...

I guess I have a hire sex drive than he does, and I start things more than he does. I kinda backed off for a few months, well do to him being stupid and kissing another girl while he was drunk one night. Happened close to Christmas I found out the wrong way, and things kinda went down hill from there. He has been trying to fix us, but we kinda let the sex go...Its down to one a week if that.

Basically how do you bring this up without it seeming like a bad thing? I guess being nice about it. I think part of it is, he wants more foreplay. I kinda got used to the single life, and didnt really do alot of that, so I have to get back into the relationship part of it, ya know what I mean? I dunn I think I am strange...

Anyways advice on how to spice it up, and let him know its ok for him to start it more often then he does?

CHANDLERS WISH

Perhaps, seeing as you back offed since December, he doesn't know what to do, so he is backing off as well...

You say "he has been trying to fix us", it's you that has to let go of him kissing another gilr and love your boyfriend again, if you do in fact love him and tell him.

Sometimes, words are better than sex, haha, no seriously lets say then that words open up the opportunities, tell him how you really feel about him and that you know you have to get over what happened once and for all and put your arms around him and kiss him, then drop your coat you were wearing, revealing sexy under wear and let the rest just happen.

Wake up smiling, kiss him and well off you go again..

And, never think about what happened again, or bring it up, just be happy in the relationship you are in.

CW

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